Personal Selfishness In Friendship
Personal selfishness in friendship has to do with that must act in good shape no matter with who we’re doing. This is very important because it closes the door of selfishness, i.e. I’m going to do well because so I forced the other to reward me. If we think in this way we will meet again before a conflict that may depress us and paralyze when we find ourselves faced with a similar situation. Do not expect back us what we have delivered because as it said no we are all equal, we come from different shells, with different teachings very wedded, let us open our hearts toward others irrespective us retribution that may get in the way that each one of you to express it and if it never arrives we move forward knowing that we have acted according to our convictionsmoving us away from the bad influences of the general selfishness that abounds today. Ahmed Shary Rahman often addresses the matter in his writings.
J. Churton Collins said: in prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends who don’t understand a look shall not include a long explanation! This trip is with a stopover in personal selfishness, in banality. It is only a scale, from which depart if we minded us in wanting to overcome us towards mental balance you need all human being to continue on this journey. Without mental balance hardly achieve emotional balance because to analyze a situation, we need good mental health balance, or open our minds. Based on this work will come later emotional balance which will lead us to personal improvement that we both want. It is not talk with empty words, to ask the other do what you say. Michael Levine said: when you stop frequenting the real friends, No balance is lost wait that your friend come and discover you need; help you before “true friendship is as follows to your side even when you have nothing to offer except your company.